DAY 22

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Key takeaways

Relaxation improves with practice; let it happen naturally.

Use a focus (e.g., breath) to redirect wandering thoughts.

Key elements: quiet space, focus point, passive mindset, comfort.

Relaxation is more than just a moment of calm—it’s a skill you can strengthen over time, much like building muscles at the gym. In the beginning, relaxing on command might feel unfamiliar, difficult, or even frustrating, especially if you’re used to being constantly “on.” But with regular practice, it becomes easier to shift your body and mind into a relaxed state, allowing you to unwind more fully and prepare for a night of truly restorative sleep.

Just like physical training, relaxation requires intention and consistency. Developing this “relaxation muscle” not only improves your ability to let go of daily stress, but also helps regulate your nervous system, calm racing thoughts, and ease the transition into sleep. The more you practice, the more naturally your body will respond to your wind-down cues—making sleep feel less like something you have to force and more like something your body welcomes.

In today’s content, we’ll explore how practicing relaxation can transform your sleep experience and how MDsleep can support that process by helping you feel calm, centered, and ready for rest.

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Key takeaways

Relaxation improves with practice; let it happen naturally.

Use a focus (e.g., breath) to redirect wandering thoughts.

Key elements: quiet space, focus point, passive mindset, comfort.

Relaxation is a skill you can develop, just like building muscles at the gym. While it may feel unfamiliar or even awkward at first, consistent practice will make it easier to slip into a relaxed state. Relaxation not only improves your ability to unwind but also prepares your body and mind for restorative sleep. By learning to train your “relaxation muscle,” you’ll be better equipped to manage stress, calm racing thoughts, and create the ideal mental state for falling asleep naturally.

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Relaxation Is a Skill, Not an Instant Fix

Like any new skill, relaxation may feel unnatural or even awkward when you first start. That’s okay—practice will make it easier over time. The key to success is cultivating a passive attitude. Trying too hard to relax will only create tension. Instead, allow your body to ease into a state of calm naturally.

As you practice relaxation techniques, you might notice sensations such as tingling, floating, warmth, or even drowsiness. These are normal signs that your body is responding to relaxation. Some people, however, may initially feel more anxious as they become aware of bodily sensations. If this happens, remind yourself that this is also a normal part of the process. With time and practice, the anxiety will subside, and you’ll begin to feel more in control.

Managing Distractions and Wandering Thoughts

Distraction is inevitable when you first begin relaxation exercises. If your mind starts to wander or you feel drowsy, gently redirect your thoughts to the task at hand. Using a word or phrase like “relax” can help refocus your mind. Over time, you’ll notice your ability to stay present improves, and the relaxation response becomes deeper and more automatic.

The Four Foundations of Relaxation Practice

To create the best environment for relaxation, make sure you incorporate these four components:

A Quiet, Dimly Lit Environment: Aim for minimal noise and lighting with a red hue to avoid stimulating your brain.
An Object to Focus On: This could be your breathing, a soothing image, or a mantra.
A Passive Attitude: Release the urge to control the process. Let relaxation happen naturally.
A Comfortable Position: Find a posture that feels good for you, but avoid lying in bed unless it’s bedtime.